The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence

Real terror is a blessing.

Unjustified dread is a sin.

Acquire the ability to discriminate.

"No" is not an acceptable response on a date. A mother is nervous about the new nanny. In an empty parking lot, a stranger offers uninvited assistance. Every day, we are surrounded by the danger of violence. However, we can defend ourselves if we can learn to believe in and follow our instincts.

Gavin de Becker, whom Oprah Winfrey refers to as the country's foremost authority on violent conduct, teaches you how to recognize even the most subtle warning signals of danger in this inspiring book—before it's too late. Dispelling the myth that the majority of violent crimes are random, de Becker, whose clients include government agencies and prominent Hollywood figures, provides detailed advice on how to protect yourself and the people you care about. These tips include what to do in the event of a stranger approaching you, when you should be afraid of a close friend or family member, how to deal with stalker situations, how to identify the source of anonymous threats or phone calls, the worst thing you can do when dealing with a potentially dangerous person, and more. Recognize the warning signs that others fail to see. It might potentially save your life.